How Gay Men Can Join The Fight Against Misogyny: Free Women Of Your Opinions

If we really want to stand up for feminism, we can start by freeing women of our blindly misogynistic criticisms of everything they do.

Since the beginning of time men have had an invested interest in what women do, how they do it, and ultimately whether or not that’s okay with us.

…Which is completely absurd.

The warped idea that a man’s opinion about a woman should actually matter, transcends sexual orientation. It’s not just the straight guys—gay men are also notorious for perpetuating women’s need to constantly seek male approval…

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Breaking The F**k Boy Cycle

Why do we fall so hard for men who aren’t about sh*t? Now when I say “men who aren’t about shit”, I’m not simply referring to annual incomes or a lack of vocational milestones. There are also men who look amazing on paper (and without clothes on) but don’t have an ounce of emotional intelligence—aka aren’t about shit. So…

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Why #BlackLivesMatter Is Important; In Layman’s Terms

For the #AllLivesMatters vs. #Blacklivesmatter debaters out there….Just to clarify my vantage point as a black male and why I’ll never stop saying #BlackLivesMatter… Prior to the tragic killings over the last month this hashtag/movement has never meant to insinuate that all lives DON’T matter, it was simply created in support of the black lives that are,…

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The Truth About Cats & Dogs

The last two introverts I dated both claimed to be the “cat” of the relationship…   …And as much as I wanted to deny it, naturally, I was always the extroverted puppy. After looking into an article explaining the mechanics behind the  mind of an introvert, I realized that literally EVERY guy I’ve dated has been a…

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5 Simple Reasons Why Guys Who Hit The Gym Are Sexier

In my opinion, men who work-out are sexier than men who don’t… …but not for the reasons that you’d assume. Take notice that I didn’t say men with bangin’ bodies or dudes with six-packs are sexier—and that was intentional. When it comes to a man, there are several nonphysical attributes from which his sexiness derives. Attitude, personality, and drive, just to name a few, can be…

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Before Approaching The “Unfriendly Black Hotties” Table

The “Unfriendly black hotties” clique was first identified during the tribal navigation of the high school cafeteria in the cult classic, Mean Girls. If you’ve lived your life under a rock and haven’t seen Mean Girls, stop what you’re doing, apologize to yourself and then watch this clip. Anyone who’s spent time in the LGBT nightlife scene has undoubtedly noticed a similar…

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